My husband gets frustrated with me around holidays where gift giving involved. He really likes to get me material objects where I prefer experiences. Every time one of these holidays come around there is always an argument around what I want and me saying nothing, then him feeling that I am setting him up for trouble when the days arrives. As i am writing this my husband is sitting next me to shaking his head in agreement.
This Christmas was a little different. We had some big purchases made and decided to only purchase a few things for reach other. We did not really mention what we wanted, just hoped after almost 17 years together we are able to buy gifts each one of us enjoys.