Do you ever feel stuck in your life. Not sure what direction to go, or feeling like you are missing something?About three to four years ago I was feeling stuck in my professional career. I was starting to contemplate if I really wanted to be a social worker for the rest of my professional life. When you have invested several thousands dollars into your education and licensure it is really hard to walk away from your career. I did not hate my career. I have been able to have rewarding moments and have worked with some amazing people. With that being said a social worker has many challenging aspects of the job that can make it frustrating.
It is the end of the school year and we are continuing our tradition of going on a family camping trip. My daughter has been asking to go to Moose Hillock Campground in Warner, NH and we finally make it. The campground is locate literally in the middle of now where. It’s about 30 minutes from Lincoln and 45 minutes from Plymouth, NH. This has been one of our most favorite camping spots. Below is highlighted why.
Sometimes I want to go on an adventure, but I do not want to drive far. With it being such a beautiful day I did not want to waste it inside. Plus this had been the first weekend that we had nothing planned.
This is not my typical blog post about our adventures in the outdoors, but I wanted to share our recent trip with my followers. In the beginning of May my family and I took our first big family vacation. A trip to Disney World in Florida. I have been to Disney World several times in my childhood and young adult years. With that being said the last time I visited was about 11 years ago, as you can imagine a lot has changed since then. This past year we have been planning our trip and I could not do it without the help of an amazing Travel Agent, Rachel with Middle of The Magic Travel . She booked everything for us except our flight, gave us great suggestions and was able to change reservations and assist even during our vacation. Below are some highlights from our trip.
My daughters school does a six week after school program twice a year. Once in the Fall and once in the Spring. My daughter has done some pretty fun clubs such as arts and crafts, photography, dreamcatchers and legos. When the flyer went home this winter for the spring session they were asking for volunteers. My daughter said to me, “Mom they will let you do a hiking club, you should do it.” The first thing I thought was, that sounds like tons of fun, a way to get outside more and encourage the younger generation to love hiking as much as I do. Then I thought, ugh another thing added to my plate, because let’s not lie we all think that from time to time. After my internal struggle and my daughter begging me to do it I reminded myself that this is why I work less hours, so I can do more activities with my daughter. I reached out to a fellow teacher friend who agreed to do it with me.
Recently, I have been seeing many blog posts, studies and reading material about how kids are not getting enough time outside. I have seen the recommended time at a minimum of three hours up to six hours a day. This had me thinking, “we are an outdoorsy family, I’m sure we meet this requirement.” I thought about my nine year old daughters’ typical school day during this month of March. In the morning she goes to a before school program that focuses on kids being outside. She is usually outside 30 minutes prior to the bus picking her up. Then she goes to school. After lunch she has recess, which is about 30 minutes. I pick her up from school, she comes home and does her homework. If she does not have basketball then we go for a 30 minute walk. That is it for outside time. An average day she is outside for only about 90 minutes, which is way below the recommended time. I guess we aren’t as outdoorsy as I thought. Our weekends are different as we have more time and there is usually at least one outdoor activity a day planned that is a couple hours, but that is only two days out of the week.
We all have our reasons for hiking and being outdoors. I have talked about some of mine, such as it being a good family activity, it usually does not cost money and I love how I feel when I am out on the trail. There is another reason that I have mentioned a couple times, but do not talk about a lot. I hike because I am a Social Worker. I like to keep my personal and my professional life separate. With March being National Social Work Month I thought it would be a good time for me to break out of that shell.
I recently wrote a blog post about How the Outdoors has Helped Me Live a Simple Life. Not an easy post talking about our struggles, but an important lesson for us. I thought I should give my wonderful readers an example of a day trip or activities that we do to keep ourselves entertained without breaking the bank.
When having a child involved in extracurricular activities, sometimes your weekend time is taken up by their commitments. The last couple months our daughter has had basketball every Saturday. I love watching her and her friends on the court, but I was starting to itch for a day trip. We are in the process of saving money for a big trip in May so I am being overly cautious of our spending. With finally having a Saturday free and it being the start of vacation week I wanted to do something fun.
What if I live a simple life? Have you seen the various blogs posts or memes talking about wanting to live a minimalist lifestyle? Then you see ads about the next new car, the bigger house, what we should be wearing or doing. Basically how to keep up with Jones. The struggle is literally real between wanting a simple life and keeping up with the Jones.
Growing up I lived a comfortable life. We had a nice house and nice cars. Due to my parents work I was lucky enough to have a summer home and our main home. We traveled around the country frequently, had many adventures around New England and I was able to go to Spain in High School with my Spanish Club. My friends and I grew up boating, snowmobiling, spending time at various friends camps as well as participating in various activities.
I love winter. Before you start the hate mail, I know winter is not for everyone, but when you live in New England we are blessed with this season for at least four to five months so why not find ways to enjoy it. I love hiking in the winter, the cold provides a refreshing crispness to the air along with magnificent views you do not get during other seasons.
Parenthood is not easy, there are so many parenting books, websites, blogs, social media posts all telling us how we should and should not parent. Are they right or are they wrong? This is a question that will be asked forever as new scientific studies come out and opinions change over time. The one thing that is consistent is that we want to raise well rounded, happy children. How do you do that? If someone finds out please let me know.
2019 is coming up fast and a lot of people are thinking about their new years resolutions and goals for the upcoming year. Two years ago I changed my frame of mind around resolutions. There are always the same ones like, save more money, loose x amount of weight, go to the gym so many days a week, etc. There is nothing wrong with these resolutions, but I wanted something different.
At the beginning of the year I was looking for a new way to challenge myself. With the help of Hike Like a Woman I learned of the 365 Mile Challenge. When reading the requirements of this challenge I thought it would be easy to get in 365 miles within the year. I walk and hike a lot, and when we have snow I cross country ski. The requirements of the challenge is do to 365 self propelled miles either walking, hiking, running, bike riding, paddling, snowshoeing or cross country skiing. My daughter, eight at the time, wanted join the challenge with me. We printed off two of the tracking sheets and off we went.
It is Christmas time which means we are looking for that perfect gift. The gift that won’t break a few hours after playing with it or won’t be thrown in the corner a couple days after Christmas. I am getting to the point that when I look for gifts for my daughter I want to try to make sure it is something that she will truly enjoy or use. Below are some of my daughter and my favorite kids gifts.
Fall is here, one of my favorite times to explore New England, with the crispness in the air and beautiful colors starting to pop, it is hard to resist a day drink. Even though we had a 1001 chores to do around the house, I did not want to pass up on the beautiful fall day. After soccer we jumped into the the truck and took a ride to Vermont. Our goal was to initially hit the larges corn maze in Vermont, but when we realized it was over two hours away we had to change direction.
Being in the outdoors has always come natural to me. When I was just a couple days old I went from the hospital in Presque Isle Maine, into the woods of the Allagash Wilderness Waterway where my parents worked. I live about 60 miles from town until it was time for me to start school. I was fortunate to spend 16 summers and a few winters on the Allagash. Here is where I learned to swim, canoe on lakes and white water, primitive camp, hike, read a compass, snowshoe, cross country ski, snowmobile, live in a cabin without electricy or the modern conveniences of home and overall survive in the wilderness.
Fall is upon us. I love fall for many reasons, the crispness in the air, the beautiful colors, the clear days, pumpkin everything and it’s my birthday season. It is also my favorite time to hike. The Monadnock Regions is a host to many wonderful trails that offer some great views in the fall. Below are some my favorite area hikes to enjoy the foliage.
This morning as I was laying in bed scrolling through Facebook, a memory popped up that a year ago today I announced that I was one of 22 women chosen to be an Ambassador for Hike Like a Woman (HLAW). At the time I was chosen I did not know what this meant other than I would get to connect with women who had the same passion I did, the great outdoors. Well this year has changed me in more ways than I could imagine.
As school and activities are winding down for the summer, it is time to focus on summer plans and bucket lists. I have had many people tell me that their kids want to hike this summer and have asked me about hikes in the area that are good with kids from babies up to Middle School age. This is very exciting to me. Even thought hiking with kids is not always fun, check out my blog post on that. It very beneficial so I have put together my list of favorites hikes for kids in the Monadnock Region. The hikes are in no particular order and I had input from my eight year old. Click on the trail name for a full description of each trail.
Have you ever struggled to do something and it’s bothered you so much that you felt you needed to face that challenge again. Well that recently happened to me, well it has happened multiple times, but the most recent was this past Sunday. The beginning of the spring I had some minor health issues, nothing too serious, but I had to put my hiking on hold for over a month to get myself better. After I was medically cleared to hike again. I did not jump back into hiking like I should have. I did a few easy hikes on short trails with minimal elevation. Due to my daughters activities, home improvement projects and lots of rainy weather, my hiking has been put on the back burner.